Update

[sabrinamari]

Hanging in there. Last night I had important talks with two friends, each of whom really helped me to see something---more than one thing---that is really important.

Exciting news: I am working on getting a cool apartment, possibly with a friend. Hurray!

Ken and I are learning more and more everyday about who we are and what we really want. This is so hard. At least we agree that we still want each other, just not as spouses.

Still, it really hurts. This afternooon, he called me because he was sad and he missed me at the exact moment that I first thought "I feel so sad. I miss him," for the day.

Please please please let us get past jealousy quickly and effectively with each other in the years to come so that we can still be close to each other after we start seeing other people romantically.

deep sigh.

Comments

[sligoe.livejournal.com]

No intrusion whatsoever! Thank you for your kind comments.....I have, unfortunately, walked this path more than once, adn finally have come to terms with it. I know what works, what doesn't---and I can finally offer support to those who need it, thanks to the wonderful friends and loved ones who have helped me pull through the same ordeal. It's that "dark night of the soul" that each of us faces at one time or another---and each of us needs to find the light that shines within. We just need to be reminded that it's there!

Blessings!