Update

[sabrinamari]

Hanging in there. Last night I had important talks with two friends, each of whom really helped me to see something---more than one thing---that is really important.

Exciting news: I am working on getting a cool apartment, possibly with a friend. Hurray!

Ken and I are learning more and more everyday about who we are and what we really want. This is so hard. At least we agree that we still want each other, just not as spouses.

Still, it really hurts. This afternooon, he called me because he was sad and he missed me at the exact moment that I first thought "I feel so sad. I miss him," for the day.

Please please please let us get past jealousy quickly and effectively with each other in the years to come so that we can still be close to each other after we start seeing other people romantically.

deep sigh.

Comments

[sharrainchains.livejournal.com]

What an incredibly wise and helpful comment.

S, I am sorry that you are going through this. You are one of the most incredible women I have ever met. I don't think that anyone can encounter you without feeling your vibrance, love, talent, generosity, and intelligence. You inspire so many. I hope you follow your friend's suggestions to help you make it through. And if you need a road trip, sometime, grab citabria and come down this way! We have two spare sleep sofas, I understand there is a Bluestar South outpost in Takoma Park, and many who would be delighted to see you.

::hug::

[oakleaves.livejournal.com]

Blue Star Canada certainly has space for you as well, but you know that. :) And yes, travel to new places is great therapy.