Writer's Block: Cyberstalking

[sabrinamari]

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Nope. I don't have a general opinion about whether it's good, bad, or emotionally healthy/dangerous to do so. For me, it feels like a waste of time. What's been created and done is past, and what matters is what I did or didn't learn from the experience.

Every moment I spend monitoring is a moment I don't get to spend enjoying my life and those I love NOW, and I hate to waste immediate opportunities for delight.

Comments

[faedaughter.livejournal.com]

I have to admit I like having my ex-husband on my Facebook friends list though. He is a really nice guy and it has been pleasant to have a way to continue some sort of relationship even such a casual one. It feels like he is still a part of my life in a way, which is good.

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

It sounds like he is still a positive presence in your life. That sounds like a good thing to me.

[ixtli-awakening.livejournal.com]

all in all, i agree. though it's a little weird when Facebook suggests i friend my ex-boyfriend because our profiles indicate we're both current or former Drexel students...

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Hmmm, that must feel odd, especially if you are no longer friendly with each other.

[ixtli-awakening.livejournal.com]

"no longer friendly" may be the understatement of the century. it was an ugly and poorly-timed end. but, per your original entry, i acquired a metric ton of lessons about Poor Choices That Should Not Be Repeated from the experience. at least i'm learning, yeah?

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Learning is really, really good.