Thoughtful

[sabrinamari]

The ability to create and spread happiness: this is a really important quality in friends and beloveds. I am noticing that I am happier when I spend time/create bonds with people who really care about the delight they bring to themselves and those closest to them. They actually have to care about their own happiness first, because you can't give away what you don't have.

Pulling in people who can create joy for themselves and others improves my life in profound ways. As I reformulate who I am and who I choose to be, this can be a guiding principle to keep me on course, moving me towards the places I actually want to go.

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The ability to create and spread happiness

[gracewillow.livejournal.com]

This is why my friends are the core and center of my life. It would be nice to have a career and some money, too, but I'd give them up for a tight budget and my friends. In fact I've done that once or twice.