Awkward Girl

[sabrinamari]

I think I'm actually starting to be OK with Awkward Girl, the tongue-tied and socially ill-adept part of my personality. She comes out regularly now that I'm actively trying to grow as a person; I might as well put out a place setting for her at every meal. And so far, no one I care about has run screaming or done anything other than very tactfully point out whatever I've just said, sometimes with giggles.

I just need to get over myself. And it's sort of moving in that direction.

Comments

[tigira.livejournal.com]

I think this is awesome, personally. We can be socially awkward together. :)

[ingridsummers.livejournal.com]

My "Awkward Girl" is currently living in my business life. She's the quite girl who goes on business calls with my boss - who is a force of nature. I'm learning a lot from observing her; but, I need to learn also by doing and speaking.

Ugh! I wish it felt safer to be awkward in that context.

[papabear008.livejournal.com]

I like the way you are and that is all of you and i am Awkward all the time I never was nice all the time i use to be mean! and i think you could be a very cute brat!!

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

"I like the way you are and that is all of you..."

Thank you. That means so much to me!

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

You have my love and support.

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Of course.

[alricthemad.livejournal.com]

I saw nothing awkward at FoV. You were charming thoughtful, well spoken and graceful.

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Hugging you!

[arielmn.livejournal.com]

You are a lovely charming woman. We all get tongue tied and trip on our feet. As my mom used to say I'd get my tongue wrapped around my eye teeth and couldn't see what I was saying. :)

Love you just the way you are...Billy Joel not Bruno Mars.

[puckmls.livejournal.com]

So, it sounds like your Inner Adolescent is manifesting -- that awkward, coltish part of you. Hey, if your Inner Child can come out to play, why not your Inner Adolescent?

Love you, chica! :-D

[angiedub.livejournal.com]

hehehehe

[showingup.livejournal.com]

That's such a good point!

Hey, Sabri, how about saying hello to Awkward Girl and offering your support (no fixing!) and asking what she needs from you?

[shades-of-nyx.livejournal.com]

Laughingly remembering a very precious awkward moment that made me love you a whole lot more. Embrace the awkward. Sometimes your incredible beauty can be intimidating to the rest of us. Occasional awkward moments make you seem more human and approachable.
Love you.

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Thank you, honey! You are so loving...

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Wow, could do that...

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Could be. I often feel, like, 15.

[sligoe.livejournal.com]

Awkward never goes away, especially if, all your life, you were the quiet one in the corner that never said anything---and now that you're 56 or so, you want to grab life and shake it until it gives up everything it might hold for you. Which of course means you have to start learning to deal with those things you never had to deal with before, et voila! Awkward Girl surfaces and stumbles through things. *sigh* But she gets to learn, and people get to learn with her, and they get to love each other in spite of, around, over, and under awkward---and that's never a bad thing.

My Awkward Girl hugs yours. We're sisters, after all. :)