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sabrinamari[Error: unknown template qotd]
No. I am not interested in loving or being loved for what could be. I am interested in loving and being loved for what is. Each of us will develop as we are meant to, and at each stage of that process, we are worthy of our beloveds' hearts.
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This doesn't mean that I don't believe in negotiation or in the setting of limits. I do. But that's a mutual process between two agents, not the imposition of one person's will upon another. I'm good with discussion, negotiation and boundary setting. That stuff makes me feel safer, and more loved. But just imposing my will and my ideas on another?
No way! Especially not as a condition for loving.
No. I am not interested in loving or being loved for what could be. I am interested in loving and being loved for what is. Each of us will develop as we are meant to, and at each stage of that process, we are worthy of our beloveds' hearts.
******
This doesn't mean that I don't believe in negotiation or in the setting of limits. I do. But that's a mutual process between two agents, not the imposition of one person's will upon another. I'm good with discussion, negotiation and boundary setting. That stuff makes me feel safer, and more loved. But just imposing my will and my ideas on another?
No way! Especially not as a condition for loving.
