A quick note about comments

[sabrinamari]

I haven't been responding to comments for a week or so. You may think that I am not reading them. I want you to know that not only am I reading them, I am re-reading them, and I have assembled two checklist/action plans for 1.practical issues that must be addresses and 2. coping strategies and sanity preserving observations drawn almost entirely from your comments, your suggestions, and your support.

I am reading everything and I so damn grateful for the help!

Just wanted you to know.

Comments

[willowoak.livejournal.com]

just a big *HUG*...a REALLY BIG *HUG*. Imagine the kind that makes you feel cherished and loved and accepted for who you are. And then imagine me giving you THAT hug. Cause that's what I'm doing.

Still...

[owllady13.livejournal.com]

Funny thing the word *STILL*...being both active and passive. Allow yourself to use this word to it's fullest potential.

Be *still*; be at rest and allow yourself time.

Also allow yourself the pleasure of doing those things you *still* enjoy.

Be at rest and continue.

I love you and *still* send Reiki. Let me know if you need anything else.

Meanwhile...

[wild-place-king.livejournal.com]

I am sending you another hug.

[evilbunny.livejournal.com]

You're just pretty f-ing awesome, you know that?

Take care, hon. I'd love to see you if you have time/energy. Let me know when/if.

[oakleaves.livejournal.com]

You're doing great. Keep it up.

And did I mention that there's a place in Toronto where you're welcome when, or if, you decide you could enjoy some new scenery for a weekend or more?

[onyxtwilight.livejournal.com]

Love you! :-)

OK then....

[elphaba-of-oz.livejournal.com]

One more thing. Don't drop the dishes. Don't let this divorce nonsense distract you from the important work of this post-diss period in your life - finding long-term, relevant employment. Make the space in your life to do what you must do to knock the socks off of those folks in Arizona (and anyone else who might be deciding whether to give you a job.)

almost forgot....

[elphaba-of-oz.livejournal.com]

It would be unrealistic for the 8000 people showering your journal with supportive comments to expect you to drop what you're doing and take the time to reply to each of us. We all know you have important things to do with your limited free time. Don't worry about us.

Re: almost forgot....

[sharrainchains.livejournal.com]

Thanks for pointing that out!

Re: almost forgot....

[owllady13.livejournal.com]

Thsnk you
! I have been thinking the same thing, but couldn't find the right words for it. (I think I put all my words in a bag last week , and must've had a hole in the bag. My words are all gone, and I can't seem to find them!)