vgnwtch posted this article about marriage and health

[sabrinamari]

If you are interested in conflict resolution/maintaining harmony in long-term relationships/marriage, check out the article below. It turns out that there are dangerous physiological consequences to hostility and controlling behaviors in relationships:

http://vgnwtch.livejournal.com/648570.html#cutid1

I probably added years to my life (as well as adding to the sheer transformative joy of day-to-day living) by acting to eliminate hostility and controlling behavior from my world.

: )

Comments

correlation is not causation

[elphaba-of-oz.livejournal.com]

Your grand prize after more than a decade of married hell is the sheer transformative joy of day-to-day living. That's huge.

[stephandcurtis.livejournal.com]

Amen, sistah!

[oakleaves.livejournal.com]

Will definitely read when I can... running to work...