Johari and Nohari Window exercises, adopted from many friends

[sabrinamari]

Seeking balance in all things:

http://kevan.org/johari?name=sabrinamari

http://kevan.org/nohari?name=sabrinamari

I invite you to follow the links and record the words that you associate with me. I will go though my friend's list and record the words I associate with your lists tomorrow, during my lazy relaxed weekend time. : )

Comments

Disclaimer about the f@cking Nohari window

[elphaba-of-oz.livejournal.com]

For that great joy (snerk!) I picked characteristics that I percieve in you when you are at your most vulnerable. (I'm projecting overtime, you know.) I was thinking about the divorce and your (justifiable) anger towards your ex.

In different situations we all exhibit all of these traits. It doesn't mean we're bastards.

But you know that.

Re: Disclaimer about the f@cking Nohari window

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Baby, be honest. It is a mark of respect for me that you are willing to be honest.

Re: Disclaimer about the f@cking Nohari window

[elphaba-of-oz.livejournal.com]

Honestly? Every time I have tried to fill out one of these things I have made a mental list of the qualities I see in the subject and then I go looking for those words on the list. Most of the time the words I want are not there. I ten look for synonyms. Often I don't find anything even close.

That's why I didn't do Ingrid's Nohari window. She asked for feedback on her shadow a while back. I gave the most honest answer possible in my own words. I think that's more useful.

Years ago I would have said your biggest weakness was your need to please. I don't think that's still operative.

Re: Disclaimer about the f@cking Nohari window

[sabrinamari.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I know. I found myself looking for words that weren't there for many of my dearest friends. But I tried to do the most honest job possible with the words on hand.

Yay, I agree that my weaknesses are evolving. Yay!