In my house of birth there were few positive messages and many, many negative ones. So I think perhaps this proportion is most critical in the first relationships you form---with your parents.
But change is possible!
Through a lot of experience, listening, watching, reading and learning, I've co-created something different. In my household now, we exchange many positive messages and few negative ones. Thank gods. I have no endurance for the other way.
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Date: 2012-04-05 12:10 pm (UTC)But change is possible!
Through a lot of experience, listening, watching, reading and learning, I've co-created something different. In my household now, we exchange many positive messages and few negative ones. Thank gods. I have no endurance for the other way.