There are wonderful opportunities just waiting for you---Arizona may be one of them, but unless you take that leap of faith and try it, you'll never know. Since I separated 2 1/2 years ago from my now ex-husband, I have had to make many such leaps---and hated most of them! I just wanted to cling and cling---it took a long time to realize that I needed to see myself as strong and independent---as I used to be before the devastation that was my past marriage---before I let myself become dependent on a person that used me.
You're in a good place---reach out and grasp your new self and love her dearly. Do anything and everything that she would like to do and try----don't let there be one "what if" to cloud her days. Go for it all---and you will soar with the eagles, your spirit singing and your heart light. And always remember that there are always places to come home to---you are in the hearts of your friends and family, adn that there will always be a homecoming waiting for you.
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There are wonderful opportunities just waiting for you---Arizona may be one of them, but unless you take that leap of faith and try it, you'll never know. Since I separated 2 1/2 years ago from my now ex-husband, I have had to make many such leaps---and hated most of them! I just wanted to cling and cling---it took a long time to realize that I needed to see myself as strong and independent---as I used to be before the devastation that was my past marriage---before I let myself become dependent on a person that used me.
You're in a good place---reach out and grasp your new self and love her dearly. Do anything and everything that she would like to do and try----don't let there be one "what if" to cloud her days. Go for it all---and you will soar with the eagles, your spirit singing and your heart light. And always remember that there are always places to come home to---you are in the hearts of your friends and family, adn that there will always be a homecoming waiting for you.
With all my love....